{"id":4523,"date":"2019-11-04T15:30:47","date_gmt":"2019-11-04T07:30:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/people.utm.my\/hadijahjaffri\/?p=4523"},"modified":"2019-11-04T15:30:47","modified_gmt":"2019-11-04T07:30:47","slug":"why-are-you-not-friendly","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/hadijahjaffri\/why-are-you-not-friendly\/","title":{"rendered":"Why are you not friendly?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt\">One of the students asked me why I would seem to rush or always in a hurry when they approach me.\u00a0 Well, for one thing, off lately I have things in my mind that seem to bug me.\u00a0 It is not about the classes or the students, it is something that I have thought about for a while and I do not have any answer or solution to that yet and thus, it keeps bugging me until now.\u00a0 For those who know me quite well, I can appear to be funny, bubbly but I can also turn into a person who appears to be snobbish\/surly\/unapproachable in a split second.\u00a0 <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt\">Well, it is me alright.\u00a0 I do not have multiple personality disorders or am not Mr Hyde and Dr Jekyll.\u00a0 Well, the only suggestion that I can give to my students is go and read Brian Little&#8217;s book &#8220;Me, myself and us&#8221;.\u00a0 \u00a0Yup.\u00a0 I am an introvert alright.\u00a0 I confirm it when I took a personality test when I was in Durham (just for the sake of exploring myself, I volunteered to be a guinea pig when the graduate school organised a workshop)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt\"><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/hadijahjaffri\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/743\/2019\/11\/me-myself-and-us.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-4524 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/hadijahjaffri\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/743\/2019\/11\/me-myself-and-us.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"242\" height=\"367\" \/><\/a> .\u00a0 \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One of the students asked me why I would seem to rush or always in a hurry when they approach me.\u00a0 Well, for one thing, off lately I have things in my mind that seem to bug me.\u00a0 It is not about the classes or the students, it is something that I have thought about &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/hadijahjaffri\/why-are-you-not-friendly\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Why are you not friendly?<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":851,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,13],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4523","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-other","category-random-rambling"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/hadijahjaffri\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4523","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/hadijahjaffri\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/hadijahjaffri\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/hadijahjaffri\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/851"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/hadijahjaffri\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4523"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/hadijahjaffri\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4523\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4526,"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/hadijahjaffri\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4523\/revisions\/4526"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/hadijahjaffri\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4523"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/hadijahjaffri\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4523"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/hadijahjaffri\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4523"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}