{"id":7562,"date":"2023-07-13T10:57:54","date_gmt":"2023-07-13T02:57:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/hadijahjaffri\/?p=7562"},"modified":"2023-07-13T10:58:42","modified_gmt":"2023-07-13T02:58:42","slug":"what-doesnt-kill-you-make-your-stronger","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/hadijahjaffri\/what-doesnt-kill-you-make-your-stronger\/","title":{"rendered":"What doesn&#8217;t kill you make your stronger&#8230;.."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Someone gave me a newspaper article about teachers&#8217; behavior in implementing punishment.  This person just wanted my opinion about the right way to punish students.  Well, to differentiate what is right or wrong is a bit tricky.  It is contextual.  But if you want to see punishment from psychological perspectives, in specific operant conditioning (a theory by B. F Skinner), you will see that punishment does not have to be physical.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When I was 10 years old, I was struggling with double digits multiplication.  I vividly remember the incident well until now.  To cut the long story short, I was called in front of the class with another 3 students.  I only remember one out of the three students.  One of them is N because she stood on my left side.  There was no one standing on my right side.  After so many years, the incident seemed like a dream, or more like a nightmare.  It felt as if that incident never happened in my life even though sometimes the memory still bugs me once a while.  This is what we call as repressed memory.  Even though the idea of repressed memory is controversial, but in my case, it is as if subconsciously I purposely wish not to remember it.  This is quite logical if we refer to Freud&#8217;s defense mechanism of repression.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I never met the teacher again after I left primary school.  I know some of my friends had met her once or more than that.  I feel there is no need to meet her.  I still respect her as a teacher but what she had done is unforgettable.  That is for sure.  Someone told me that I need to move on.  After all, this teacher already passed away.  Lesson needs to be learned.  Every time I teach a relevant topic, I will use that as an example of what a teacher should not do.  In a way, that incident gives me ideas to be a better teacher.  For that, I thank her (arwah Cikgu N) for that.  Al &#8211; fatihah.  <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Someone gave me a newspaper article about teachers&#8217; behavior in implementing punishment. This person just wanted my opinion about the right way to punish students. Well, to differentiate what is right or wrong is a bit tricky. It is contextual. But if you want to see punishment from psychological perspectives, in specific operant conditioning (a &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/hadijahjaffri\/what-doesnt-kill-you-make-your-stronger\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">What doesn&#8217;t kill you make your stronger&#8230;..<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":851,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,13],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7562","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-other","category-random-rambling"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/hadijahjaffri\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7562","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/hadijahjaffri\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/hadijahjaffri\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/hadijahjaffri\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/851"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/hadijahjaffri\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7562"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/hadijahjaffri\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7562\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8296,"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/hadijahjaffri\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7562\/revisions\/8296"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/hadijahjaffri\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7562"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/hadijahjaffri\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7562"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/hadijahjaffri\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7562"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}