{"id":3490,"date":"2018-10-10T22:45:06","date_gmt":"2018-10-10T22:45:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/people.utm.my\/hanita\/?p=3490"},"modified":"2018-10-10T22:45:54","modified_gmt":"2018-10-10T22:45:54","slug":"3490","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/hanita\/2018\/10\/10\/3490\/","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"

7 prevention tactics to save you from unnecessary heat up arguments<\/p>\n

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  1. listen with positive expectations, not judgment<\/li>\n
  2. ask for information in a nonthreatening manner<\/li>\n
  3. when in doubt, leave it out<\/li>\n
  4. cool off before you open your mouth<\/li>\n
  5. talk ‘now’ not ‘always’<\/li>\n
  6. treat the undesired behaviour as an exception, not the rule<\/li>\n
  7. take emotions out of technology<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    (Loretta Malandro. (2003). \u00a0Say it right the first time<\/em>. \u00a0NY: Mc Graw Hill. \u00a0166).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    7 prevention tactics to save you from unnecessary heat up arguments listen with positive expectations, not judgment ask for information in a nonthreatening manner when in doubt, leave it out cool off before you open your mouth talk ‘now’ not ‘always’ treat the undesired behaviour as an exception, not the rule take emotions out of … <\/p>\n

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