{"id":3536,"date":"2019-01-04T01:02:31","date_gmt":"2019-01-04T01:02:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/people.utm.my\/hanita\/?p=3536"},"modified":"2019-01-04T01:03:34","modified_gmt":"2019-01-04T01:03:34","slug":"3536","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/hanita\/2019\/01\/04\/3536\/","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"

The 8 telltale signs that people are not talking straight:<\/p>\n

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  1. dancing around the issue<\/li>\n
  2. dumping a laundry list of concerns<\/li>\n
  3. dramatising and exaggerating<\/li>\n
  4. minimising and reducing<\/li>\n
  5. withholding information, thoughts or feelings<\/li>\n
  6. expecting others to read your mind<\/li>\n
  7. dropping a bomb<\/li>\n
  8. deflecting and avoiding<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Read Say It Right The First Time by Loretta Malandro (2003) if you want to know how to deal with \u00a0people with those characters.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    The 8 telltale signs that people are not talking straight: dancing around the issue dumping a laundry list of concerns dramatising and exaggerating minimising and reducing withholding information, thoughts or feelings expecting others to read your mind dropping a bomb deflecting and avoiding Read Say It Right The First Time by Loretta Malandro (2003) if … <\/p>\n

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