Taking advantage of us. They know our position that can benefit them to get what they want. In this perspective, we are just being used as a toy to some fools who can’t fight for themselves. Allowing people to use us is just our weakness, which is wrongly fathomed as power. <\/li><\/ol>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"One lesson I learnt from watching ‘The Spy Gone North’ is that whenever people seek help from us, we have to look from two perspectives: Sincerely seeking help from us since they know we can help them with the ability or knowledge that we have. Taking advantage of us. They know our position that can … <\/p>\n
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