{"id":259,"date":"2019-03-15T01:47:22","date_gmt":"2019-03-15T01:47:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/people.utm.my\/huzaimahyahya\/?p=259"},"modified":"2019-03-15T01:47:22","modified_gmt":"2019-03-15T01:47:22","slug":"how-to-make-the-perfect-apology","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/huzaimahyahya\/2019\/03\/15\/how-to-make-the-perfect-apology\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Make the Perfect Apology"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"article-body\" class=\"article content body clearfix\">\n<div class=\"padded\">\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 1rem\">Full article here\u00a0<\/span><a style=\"font-size: 1rem\" href=\"http:\/\/time.com\/5400607\/how-to-apologize-loved-ones\/\">http:\/\/time.com\/5400607\/how-to-apologize-loved-ones\/<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-260\" src=\"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/huzaimahyahya\/files\/2019\/03\/sorry-300x183.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"183\" srcset=\"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/huzaimahyahya\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/597\/2019\/03\/sorry-300x183.png 300w, https:\/\/people.utm.my\/huzaimahyahya\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/597\/2019\/03\/sorry.png 632w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 1rem\">BY\u00a0<\/span><a class=\"bold author-name\" style=\"font-size: 1rem\" href=\"http:\/\/time.com\/author\/candice-jalili\/\">CANDICE JALILI\u00a0<\/a><\/p>\n<div class=\"author scale-12 padded margin-24-tb clearfix\">\n<div class=\"author-text\">\n<div class=\"timestamp published-date padding-12-left\">SEPTEMBER 20, 2018<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"article-body\" class=\"article content body clearfix\">\n<div class=\"padded\">\n<p>How do you apologize for something hurtful? Crafting an apology that can make the person you\u2019ve hurt feel better is no small feat. In fact, in order to be truly effective, an apology must contain these six components, a\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/onlinelibrary.wiley.com\/doi\/abs\/10.1111\/ncmr.12073\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">2016 study\u00a0<\/a>published in\u00a0<em>Negotiation and Conflict Management Research<\/em>\u00a0found.<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Expression of regret<\/li>\n<li>Explanation of what went wrong<\/li>\n<li>Acknowledgment of responsibility<\/li>\n<li>Declaration of repentance<\/li>\n<li>Offer of repair<\/li>\n<li>Request for forgiveness<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>And that doesn\u2019t even take into account the specific person you\u2019re addressing.<\/p>\n<p>Dr. Jennifer Thomas, co-author of\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/When-Sorry-Isnt-Enough-Making\/dp\/0802407048\/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1536208477&amp;sr=8-1&amp;keywords=when+sorry+isn%27t+enough\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>When Sorry Isn\u2019t Enough<\/em><\/a>, TED speaker and psychologist, has conducted research, alongside Dr. Gary Chapman, author of the\u00a0<i><a href=\"https:\/\/protect-us.mimecast.com\/s\/EROeC3131VflWj7BFgjdr1?domain=amazon.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts,<\/a><\/i>\u00a0to come up with five apology\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/time.com\/4186078\/love-languages\/\">languages<\/a>: expressing regret, accepting responsibility, making restitution, genuinely repenting and requesting forgiveness.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Full article here\u00a0http:\/\/time.com\/5400607\/how-to-apologize-loved-ones\/ BY\u00a0CANDICE JALILI\u00a0 SEPTEMBER 20, 2018 How do you apologize for something hurtful? Crafting an apology that can make the person you\u2019ve hurt feel better is no small feat. In fact, in order to be truly effective, an apology must contain these six components, a\u00a02016 study\u00a0published in\u00a0Negotiation and Conflict Management Research\u00a0found. Expression of &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/huzaimahyahya\/2019\/03\/15\/how-to-make-the-perfect-apology\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;How to Make the Perfect Apology&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6457,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-259","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/huzaimahyahya\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/259","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/huzaimahyahya\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/huzaimahyahya\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/huzaimahyahya\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/6457"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/huzaimahyahya\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=259"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/huzaimahyahya\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/259\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":261,"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/huzaimahyahya\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/259\/revisions\/261"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/huzaimahyahya\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=259"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/huzaimahyahya\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=259"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/huzaimahyahya\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=259"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}