{"id":2296,"date":"2016-03-15T04:54:50","date_gmt":"2016-03-14T20:54:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/people.utm.my\/murtadha\/2016\/03\/15\/creepy-note-is-the-reason-women-dont-trust-nice-guys\/"},"modified":"2016-03-15T04:54:50","modified_gmt":"2016-03-14T20:54:50","slug":"creepy-note-is-the-reason-women-dont-trust-nice-guys","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/murtadha\/2016\/03\/15\/creepy-note-is-the-reason-women-dont-trust-nice-guys\/","title":{"rendered":"Creepy note is the reason women don&#039;t trust &quot;nice guys&quot;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Creepnote\" src=\"http:\/\/rack.3.mshcdn.com\/media\/ZgkyMDE2LzAzLzE0L2I4L2NyZWVwbm90ZS43ZGMxZi5qcGcKcAl0aHVtYgk1NzV4MzIzIwplCWpwZw\/d5b6c966\/d53\/creepnote.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n<div style=\"float: right;width: 50px\"><a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/share?via=Mashable&amp;text=Creepy+note+is+the+reason+women+don%27t+trust+%22nice+guys%22&amp;src=http%3A%2F%2Fmashable.com%2F2016%2F03%2F14%2Fcreepy-note-good-guy%2F\" style=\"margin: 10px\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Feed-tw\" border=\"0\" src=\"http:\/\/rack.1.mshcdn.com\/assets\/feed-tw-f7c0a094d16b7ee7c91a1e50839a8e00.jpg\" \/><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=http%3A%2F%2Fmashable.com%2F2016%2F03%2F14%2Fcreepy-note-good-guy%2F&amp;src=sp\" style=\"margin: 10px\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Feed-fb\" border=\"0\" src=\"http:\/\/rack.1.mshcdn.com\/assets\/feed-fb-c0a21e8841794479b8086c32c6f24ba1.jpg\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<div>\n<p>For many women, nothing sounds more foreboding than a self-identified &#8220;good guy.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Case in point: the note discovered by <a href=\"http:\/\/fenrufenrifenny.tumblr.com\/post\/138299987532\/fenrufenrifenny-presenting-without-comment\" title=\"\">Tumblr user ElfFanatic<\/a>. Recently, she posted a photo of this charming little flyer she found from a &#8220;good guy&#8221; who just wants help women be &#8220;less afraid of the world.&#8221;<\/p>\n<div>\n<p>SEE ALSO: <a href=\"http:\/\/mashable.com\/2016\/03\/10\/dad-adoption-letter\/\">Woman asks surrogate father to adopt her with heartfelt note<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>&#8220;It hurts to see you fall,&#8221; he writes.&#8221;I guess we&#8217;ll just have to suffer through watching you get broken over and over by the <b><i>scum<\/i><\/b> you think you love&#8221; (Bold and italics are his).<\/p>\n<p>The flyer in full:<\/p>\n<div>\n<div>\n<div>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/fenrufenrifenny.tumblr.com\/post\/138297830047\/presenting-without-comment\">http:\/\/fenrufenrifenny.tumblr.com\/post\/138297830047\/presenting-without-comment<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/mashable.com\/2016\/03\/14\/creepy-note-good-guy\/\">Read more&#8230;<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>More about <a href=\"http:\/\/mashable.com\/category\/notes\/?utm_campaign=Mash-Prod-RSS-Feedburner-All-Partial&amp;utm_cid=Mash-Prod-RSS-Feedburner-All-Partial\">Notes<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/mashable.com\/category\/gender\/?utm_campaign=Mash-Prod-RSS-Feedburner-All-Partial&amp;utm_cid=Mash-Prod-RSS-Feedburner-All-Partial\">Gender<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/mashable.com\/category\/good-guys\/?utm_campaign=Mash-Prod-RSS-Feedburner-All-Partial&amp;utm_cid=Mash-Prod-RSS-Feedburner-All-Partial\">Good Guys<\/a>, and <a href=\"http:\/\/mashable.com\/watercooler\/?utm_campaign=Mash-Prod-RSS-Feedburner-All-Partial&amp;utm_cid=Mash-Prod-RSS-Feedburner-All-Partial\">Watercooler<\/a><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/feeds.feedburner.com\/~r\/Mashable\/~4\/c7nKiWkLxMQ\" height=\"1\" width=\"1\" alt=\"\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For many women, nothing sounds more foreboding than a self-identified &#8220;good guy.&#8221; Case in point: the note discovered by Tumblr user ElfFanatic. Recently, she posted a photo of this charming little flyer she found from a &#8220;good guy&#8221; who just &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/murtadha\/2016\/03\/15\/creepy-note-is-the-reason-women-dont-trust-nice-guys\/\">Read More<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":115,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[1161,1583,1582,735],"class_list":["post-2296","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-other","tag-gender","tag-good-guys","tag-notes","tag-watercooler"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/murtadha\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2296","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/murtadha\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/murtadha\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/murtadha\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/115"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/murtadha\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2296"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/murtadha\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2296\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/murtadha\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2296"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/murtadha\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2296"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/murtadha\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2296"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}