{"id":818,"date":"2020-02-29T13:18:42","date_gmt":"2020-02-29T05:18:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/people.utm.my\/norazreen\/?p=818"},"modified":"2020-12-30T01:20:37","modified_gmt":"2020-12-29T17:20:37","slug":"the-introvert-extravert-myth","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/norazreen\/2020\/02\/29\/the-introvert-extravert-myth\/","title":{"rendered":"The Introvert-Extravert Myth"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

A version of this article originally appeared on Inc<\/a>. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you don’t know whether you’re an introvert or extravert, you live under a rock.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The terms were invented by Swiss psychiatrist and psychoanalyst<\/a> Carl Jung<\/a> in the 1920s. They’ve since adopted a prominent, if not undying, life of their own. They’re the cornerstone of Myers-Briggs<\/a> and one of the Big Five<\/a> traits. Most simply, Jung conceived of introverts as drawing energy from being alone, whereas extraverts draw it from their surroundings and relationships.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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But the very man who dreamt up what has become the pinnacle of personality<\/a> labels conceded that “There is, finally, a third group, and here it is hard to say whether the motivation<\/a> comes chiefly from within or without.” In Psychological Types<\/em>, Jung wrote that this group\u2014not introverts or extraverts\u2014is “the most numerous and includes the less differentiated normal man.” In other words, Jung believed that introverts and extraverts are minorities.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What is this mysterious, common third type? Research increasingly points to the existence of “ambiverts”: people with balanced, nuanced personalities composed of both introverted and extraverted traits.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

According to a Wall Street Journal<\/em><\/a> interview with Wharton psychologist Adam Grant, ambiverts make up between half and two-thirds of the population.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is good news, because ambiverts win at life and business. The “ambivert advantage<\/a>” scientifically explains how ambiverts combine the best of both sides. In one<\/a> of several such studies, ambiverts achieved higher sales productivity<\/a> than introverts or extraverts\u2014in some cases, twice as much. Because ambiverts can listen as well as assert themselves, they’re ideal salespeople, coworkers, business owners, and leaders.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

To be sure, diehard introverts and extraverts do exist, but they’re exceptions, and they may be worse for it. Furthermore, extreme leanings could be the result of what psychologist Carol Dweck calls a “fixed mindset.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Over several decades, research by Dweck and others has differentiated between growth mindset\u2014believing you can cultivate your qualities and personality with effort\u2014and fixed mindset\u2014conviction that you have a limited amount of intelligence<\/a> or talent, a certain personality, and immutable character.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A recent study<\/a> positioned fixed mindset as “self-as-story”: You believe you’re a certain way; that’s just how you are. It’s the story you tell yourself about you. The study explained, as an example, that “a person who conceptualizes themselves as introverted may have difficulty recognizing or remembering their own extraverted behavior, or they may avoid potentially stressful<\/a> social situations and come to live in an increasingly insular world.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

After taking some personality tests in college, I decided I was an introvert. I noticed that the more I saw myself as an introvert, the more introverted I became. At 18, I thought I was the life of the party. At 25, I almost convinced myself that I was psychologically incapable of giving speeches<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“Self-as-story” tendencies are associated with reduced wellbeing, particularly if self-conceptualizations are negative. Fixed mindsets<\/a> are correlated with reduced performance, self-esteem<\/a>, creativity<\/a>, resilience<\/a> and self-awareness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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A version of this article originally appeared on Inc.  If you don’t know whether you’re an introvert or extravert, you live under a rock. The terms were invented by Swiss psychiatrist and psychoanalyst Carl Jung in the 1920s. They’ve since adopted a prominent, if not undying, life of their own. They’re the cornerstone of Myers-Briggs and one […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5413,"featured_media":819,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-818","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/norazreen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/818","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/norazreen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/norazreen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/norazreen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5413"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/norazreen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=818"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/norazreen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/818\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":820,"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/norazreen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/818\/revisions\/820"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/norazreen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/819"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/norazreen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=818"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/norazreen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=818"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/norazreen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=818"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}