{"id":28121,"date":"2019-04-18T01:12:21","date_gmt":"2019-04-17T17:12:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/people.utm.my\/nurazaliah\/?p=28121"},"modified":"2019-04-18T08:39:21","modified_gmt":"2019-04-18T00:39:21","slug":"exactly-what-to-say-the-magic-words-for-influence-and-impact","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/nurazaliah\/2019\/04\/18\/exactly-what-to-say-the-magic-words-for-influence-and-impact\/","title":{"rendered":"Exactly What to Say: The Magic Words for Influence and Impact"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The worst time to think about the thing you are going to say is in the moment you are saying it.<\/p>\n<p>Go and get this great book by Phil M Jones<\/p>\n<p>Opening Words<br \/>\n1. I\u2019m Not Sure If It\u2019s for You, But<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800080\"><em><span class=\"grey\">When you say to somebody, \u201cI\u2019m not sure if it\u2019s for you, but.. .,\u201d<\/span> the little voice inside your listener\u2019s head hears, \u201cYou might want to look at this.\u201d<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p>2. Open-Minded<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800080\"><em>When introducing a new idea, start with, \u201cHow open-minded are you?\u201d <span class=\"grey\">This will naturally attract people toward the very thing that you\u2019d like them to support. Everybody wants to be open-minded.<\/span><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p>3. What Do You Know?<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800080\"><em><span class=\"grey\">The best way to overcome the \u201cI know best\u201d mentality of many people is to<\/span> question the knowledge on which the other person\u2019s opinion was founded.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p>to be continued&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>4. How Would You Feel If?<br \/>\n5. Just Imagine<br \/>\n6. When Would Be a Good Time?<br \/>\n7. I\u2019m Guessing You Haven\u2019t Got Around To<br \/>\n8. Simple Swaps<br \/>\n9. You Have Three Options<br \/>\n10. Two Types of People<br \/>\n11. I Bet You\u2019re a Bit Like Me<br \/>\n12. If&#8230; Then<br \/>\n13. Don\u2019t Worry<br \/>\n14. Most People<br \/>\n15. The Good News<br \/>\n16. What Happens Next<br \/>\n17. What Makes You Say That?<br \/>\n18. Before You Make Your Mind Up<br \/>\n19. If I Can, Will You?<br \/>\n20. Enough<br \/>\n21. Just One More Thing<br \/>\n22. A Favor<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The worst time to think about the thing you are going to say is in the moment you are saying it. Go and get this great book by Phil M Jones Opening Words 1. I\u2019m Not Sure If It\u2019s for You, But When you say to somebody, \u201cI\u2019m not sure if it\u2019s for you, but.. [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6541,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-28121","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-howto"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/nurazaliah\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28121","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/nurazaliah\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/nurazaliah\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/nurazaliah\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/6541"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/nurazaliah\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=28121"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/nurazaliah\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28121\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":28123,"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/nurazaliah\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28121\/revisions\/28123"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/nurazaliah\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=28121"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/nurazaliah\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=28121"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/nurazaliah\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=28121"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}