In O.G Mandino\u2019s The greatest salesman in the world, a very important fact was made which said that:<\/p>\n
\u201ctwo amongst a thousand wise men will define success in the same words, yet failure is always described in one way. Failure is man\u2019s inability to reach his goals in life whatever they may be.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n While success is relative, subjective, holds monetary and non- monetary value, failure is more a \u201cone size fits all\u201d recipe. Below are ten things people do to fail on purpose.<\/p>\n 1. They don\u2019t understand the value of time. Unsuccessful people don\u2019t value their time. They are everywhere, anywhere, anytime because they lack the ability to dedicate their time towards their goals. And year after year they make new promises which never come to fruition simply because they couldn\u2019t be bothered to put in the time required towards their goals. Time management skills, learning how to say no and knowing what commitments to undertake, is a step towards great success in any area of our lives.<\/p>\n 2. They don\u2019t do things that are in alignment with their goals The more important a goal is, the higher it will be on your hierarchy of values and the more discipline and order you will have associated with it. The less important a goal is, the lower it will be on your hierarchy of values and the less discipline and more disorder you\u2019ll have associated with it. Unsuccessful people have mistaken busyness with productivity. They are a part of everything but nothing which they do is in alignment with their values and their goals. Writing down in a journal what your goals are and implementing strategies which can get you there will help you identify things that are not on par with where you are going.<\/p>\n 3. They never step up to the plate So your boss sucks and you really hate your job but this is no reason to slack and produce mediocre work. You\u2019re getting paid to be there so do it right, life has this universal law of giving you what you put in. It\u2019s just maturity and wisdom to pursuit excellence no matter the circumstances. Unsuccessful people are the ones who are okay with getting bad grades and won\u2019t bother finding an effective studying method that will help their learning ability, because after all, being a student of distinction is less about how smart you are but more about how well you can plan and prepare, and that makes you feel smarter and that in itself produces great results.<\/p>\n 4. They have self-imposed limitations Unsuccessful people tend to say things like \u201cI\u2019m just not good with numbers\u201d, \u201cI just really hate studying\u201d, and \u201cI just don\u2019t think I can run a successful business\u201d. They put limits on themselves and excuse their behaviour but it\u2019s really just a way of underachieving and aiming low enough to not miss. Get rid of the idea that you only have a specific set of skills and talents for specific tasks, stop thinking that you\u2019re not as intelligent as the next person. What life requires of you is to make the most of yourself, for yourself, and for others.<\/p>\n 5. They are good at making excuses These are the people who will find reasons and logic as to why they can\u2019t and why they shouldn\u2019t. They sometimes mistake this abhorrent tendency for \u201cjust being realistic\u201d. They lack imagination and always find ways to justify why something shouldn\u2019t be but they never really try. The best remedy for this is to stop your mind when it\u2019s about to start making the excuses and re-ignite the engine that has started it all.<\/p>\n 6. They lack class Unsuccessful people usually tend to have no social IQ. They say things like \u201cwell at least I\u2019m being honest\u201d or \u201cthis is how I am, deal with it\u201d. They don\u2019t know how to treat other people and tend to be arrogant, for no apparent reasons most of the time. Nobody likes a big mouth, a show-off, a humble boaster, or people who don\u2019t know how to just say thank you when given a compliment. These traits are unbecoming and are not what true class acts are made of. Being nice and polite to people you like is easy, being nice and polite to someone you cannot tolerate or who you are in constant disagreement with \u2013 that is a character. Learning how to speak to people is a skill only a few have mastered. It has been said the best way to test a man\u2019s character is by watching how he acts when standing in a very long queue and is met with bad service, how he handles Christmas lights and his reaction when you ruin their expensive items.<\/p>\n 7. They are procrastinators The funny thing about this one is that they are usually self-proclaimed procrastinators. They see no shame in it. This goes back to them never understanding the value of time. They are okay with living a life that keeps up with yesterday. They live life as though they just have another one in the bank. Let\u2019s just see how round one goes and if all else fails we press next or rewind or pause. Understanding that you start dying the moment you are born and wisdom to realize that every day is a gift and you owe it to yourself to do everything you can do in those twenty-four hours because nothing\u2019s ever promised today tomorrow.<\/p>\n 8. They don\u2019t\u2019 take action The simplicity of this rule of life may be why they disregard the magnitude of its effects. Unsuccessful people tend to ponder and leave footprints in the sands of time. They can talk a great game and they dream really big but they lack the courage to just go forth. Stop dreaming about what will be, dreams in themselves are not bad but get up, show up and DO something. Stop with the coffee shop meetings and go do something.<\/p>\n 9. They can\u2019t face adversity There was a shepherd boy, he was not a warrior and he was small in size. He looked at a giant and said \u201cI will strike you down and cut off your head\u201d and that is exactly what he did. The thing with challenges is, they\u2019re only as big as we make them seem and as strong as our weakness will allow. Unsuccessful people have not understood this and they give up all too quickly because things got uncomfortable, things got a little bit rough, they want roses without the thorns, babies without labour and a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow without bearing the storm. Overcoming challenges not only bring us closer to our goals but they turn us into someone we never imagined existed. Don\u2019t be afraid to conquer fears and to enter new territory, step out of your comfort zone and challenge yourself. In the midst of adversity, courage is born. You\u2019ll never know how strong you are if you\u2019ve never had to fight and sometimes you might fail but at least you failed and proved to Goliath that he wasn\u2019t quite the Giant he thought he was.<\/p>\n 10. They are apathetic<\/p>\n Yes, there are natural fence-sitters. They never have an opinion about anything, they can\u2019t make decisions and are over the border plain ignorant. They can\u2019t hold smart conversations and are not open-minded if it isn\u2019t directly in relation to what they know. They think everyone should view life the way they view it. They are indifferent about everything and stand for nothing. They don\u2019t read, they don\u2019t educate themselves past \u201cformal education\u201d and they put no effort into how they present themselves. Even if they never achieve their highest potential this is okay with them because in a world so full of wonder and curiosity they have managed to find a way to be bored. Apathy is a silent killer. Find something that you are passionate about, even if you don\u2019t get paid for it. Put your gift to use.<\/p>\n The people who are out there making things happen are not as extraordinary as we make them ought to be. They\u2019re pretty plain and most of the time after a second glance they\u2019re not all that exceptional in any way but they\u2019ve managed to get to where they are and stay there because they mastered the art of discipline and being the right person at the right time. Maybe you have so many things you want to complete and sometimes you feel so overwhelmed because there\u2019s just not enough time. 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\n\u201cAny successful entrepreneur knows that time is more valuable than money itself.\u201d \u2013 Richard Branson<\/span><\/p>\n
\n\u201cIt\u2019s not hard to make decisions when you know what your values are.\u201d \u2013 Roy Disney.<\/span><\/p>\n
\n\u201cPeople seem to think that success in one area can compensate for failure in other areas, but can it really? True effectiveness requires balance\u201d \u2013 Stephen Covey<\/span><\/p>\n
\n\u201cYou are what you are by what you believe\u201d \u2013 Oprah Winfrey<\/span><\/p>\n
\n\u201cIf you can\u2019t make it good, at least make it look good\u201d \u2013 Bill Gates<\/span><\/p>\n
\n\u201cYou can easily judge the character of a man by how he treats those who can do nothing for him.\u201d \u2015 Johann Wolfgang von Goethe<\/span><\/p>\n
\n\u201cOnly put off until tomorrow what you are willing to die having left undone\u201d \u2015 Pablo Picasso<\/span><\/p>\n
\n\u201cDo something today, your future self will thank you for\u201d \u2013 Les Brown<\/span><\/p>\n
\n\u201cAll sunshine and no rain makes a dessert\u201d \u2013 Arabian Proverb<\/span><\/p>\n