{"id":318,"date":"2018-03-27T03:09:06","date_gmt":"2018-03-27T03:09:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/people.utm.my\/nurazaliah\/?p=318"},"modified":"2018-04-03T03:16:18","modified_gmt":"2018-04-03T03:16:18","slug":"praise-and-intelligence-why-telling-kids-they-are-smart-makes-them-act-dumb","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/people.utm.my\/nurazaliah\/2018\/03\/27\/praise-and-intelligence-why-telling-kids-they-are-smart-makes-them-act-dumb\/","title":{"rendered":"Praise and intelligence:  Why telling kids they are smart makes them act dumb"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Original Article from\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.parentingscience.com\/praise-and-intelligence.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">https:\/\/www.parentingscience.com\/praise-and-intelligence.html<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Years ago, Americans were reluctant to praise their kids\u2019 intelligence.<\/p>\n<p>Like many people around the world, Americans believed that fawning over children would make them arrogant or narcissistic.<\/p>\n<p>But then something happened. American educators were seduced by the Self Esteem movement. They started promoting the idea that kids need flattery to succeed. Want your child to achieve? Tell him he is bright.<\/p>\n<p>Decades later, the idea is still entrenched in the popular culture. Consider Blue\u2019s Clues, the preschool show that ends each episode with a cheerleading session for kids:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"color: #ff0000\">\u201cHey, you know what? You\u2019re really smart!<\/span>&#8220;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>It\u2019s very well-intentioned. But it\u2019s also wrong-headed.<\/p>\n<p>Because it turns out that certain kinds of praise can backfire. In particular, telling kids they are smart can make them act dumb. And here is the evidence.<\/p>\n<p><b>When you praise kids for their ability, it makes them focus on looking good\u2014not on learning<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Kids praised for their intelligence want to keep proving themselves by doing well.<\/p>\n<p>This might sound good, but it\u2019s actually counter-productive.<\/p>\n<p>In a landmark series of experiments on American 5th graders, researchers Claudia Mueller and Carol Dweck found that kids behaved very differently depending on the kinds of praise they received.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000\">Kids who were praised for their intelligence tended to avoid challenges. Instead, they preferred easy tasks. They were also more interested in their competitive standing&#8211;how they measured up relative to others&#8211;than they were in learning how to improve their future performance.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #008000\">By contrast, kids who were praised for their effort showed the opposite trend. They preferred tasks that were challenging&#8211; tasks they would learn from.\u00a0And kids praised for effort were more interested in learning new strategies for success than they were in finding out how other children had performed.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Kids differed in other respects, too. Compared to kids praised for their effort, kids who were accustomed to being praised for their ability were<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>more likely to give up after a failure<\/li>\n<li>more likely to perform poorly after a failure, and<\/li>\n<li>more likely to misrepresent how well they did on a task.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>And that\u2019s not all. Kids praised for their intelligence were more likely to view their failures as evidence of low intelligence.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt\"><b>When you praise kids for their intelligence, they learn to view their failures as evidence of stupidity<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p>In the experiments by Mueller and Dweck, kids were given moderately difficult problems to solve. When each kid was finished, he was told \u201cWow, you did really well on these problems. You got\u2026.a really high score&#8221; (Mueller and Dweck 2002).<\/p>\n<p>In addition, each kid received one of three treatments. He was either<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #ff0000\">praised for his intelligence (\u201cYou must be smart at these problems&#8221;)<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #339966\">praised for his effort (\u201cYou must have worked hard at these problems&#8221;), or<\/span><\/li>\n<li>given no additional feedback (the control condition)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Next, kids were given a second set of problems\u2014this time, very difficult ones\u2014and kids were asked to explain why they performed poorly.<\/p>\n<p>The kids who had been praised for their intelligence on previous tasks attributed more of their failure to a lack of intelligence.<\/p>\n<p>But kids praised for their effort responded the same way as controls did\u2014attributing their failure to a lack of effort (Meuller and Dweck 2002).<\/p>\n<p>In other words, telling kids they are smart can make kids LESS likely to view themselves as intelligent.<\/p>\n<p>By praising kids for being smart, we teach them that their performance is a definitive test of intelligence. Kids might enjoy the initial praise, but when they encounter difficult challenges later\u2014as they must\u2014the praise backfires.<\/p>\n<p><b>Young children thrive on praise, but even they do better when you emphasize effort over ability<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Some research suggests that praising intelligence can enhance the motivation of preschoolers (Henderlong 2000).<\/p>\n<p>However, praising intelligence is NOT as effective as praising a child\u2019s effort and choice of strategies (Henderlong 2000).<\/p>\n<p>In one study, preschoolers were presented with two puzzles to solve and then given one of three types of feedback:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #ff0000\">\u201cPerson&#8221; praise that emphasized intelligence (\u201cYou are a really good problem-solver!&#8221;)<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #339966\">\u201cProcess&#8221; praise that emphasized effort and strategies (\u201cYou\u2019re finding really good ways to do this!&#8221;)<\/span><\/li>\n<li>Neutral feedback (\u201cYou finished both puzzles.&#8221;)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Next, kids were given a much tougher puzzle and they experienced failure.<\/p>\n<p>When the preschoolers were offered a similar puzzle weeks later, those kids who had been praised showed more motivation than kids who had received only neutral feedback.<\/p>\n<p>But the kids who had received \u201cprocess&#8221; praise showed more motivation than the kids who had gotten \u201cperson praise&#8221; (Henderlong 2000).<\/p>\n<p>Another experiment yielded similar results (Cimpian et al 2007). In this study, preschoolers watched a puppet show in which the protagonist drew a picture and was praised by a teacher.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000\">Some preschoolers saw the protagonist receive generic praise about his ability (\u201cYou are a good drawer&#8221;).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #008000\">Other preschoolers saw the protagonist receive praise only for that specific drawing (\u201cYou did a good job drawing&#8221;).<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Then the protagonist made a mistake that the teacher commented on. How did the kids feel about the show?<\/p>\n<p>The kids who\u2019d watched the protagonist receive generic praise (\u201cYou are a good drawer&#8221;) were more upset about the subsequent mistakes. When asked if they would like to draw themselves, these kids answered no.<\/p>\n<p>By contrast, the kids who had been exposed to the specific praise (\u201cYou did a good job drawing&#8221;) were more likely to show an interest in drawing.<\/p>\n<p>So what\u2019s the bottom line?<\/p>\n<p><b>The right way to praise<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Telling kids they are smart can be counterproductive, but that doesn\u2019t mean we shouldn\u2019t praise our kids. As mentioned above, even the \u201cwrong&#8221; kind of praise can be more motivating than no praise at all. And it&#8217;s likely that the right sort of praise &#8212; process praise &#8212; gives kids an advantage.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.babycenter.com\/mom_stories\/study-the-right-praise-sets-toddlers-on-the-path-to-success\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">In a study tracking American children from infancy to grade school,<\/a>\u00a0Elizabeth Gunderson and colleagues (2013) found that the higher the proportion of\u00a0<i>process\u00a0<\/i>praise kids got during early childhood, the more likely kids were to endorse \u201ccan do&#8221; attitudes when they were in the second or third grade.<\/p>\n<p>What\u2019s important, then, is to emphasize praise that makes kids feel resilient. The problem with telling kids that they are smart or talented is that kids become frightened of failure. They\u2019ve been labeled and they don\u2019t want to do anything to lose that label.<\/p>\n<p>Moreover, kids praised for intelligence tend to believe that intelligence is something innate and unchangeable (Mueller and Dweck 1998). As a result, these kids are rendered helpless by failure. If you fail, you must not be smart. End of story.<\/p>\n<p>If we keep these principles in mind, it becomes clear what kids of praise are the most helpful. Instead of telling your child she is smart or talented, try these alternatives.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #339966\">Praise your child for her strategies (e.g., \u201cYou found a really good way to do it&#8221;)<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #339966\">Praise your child for specific work (e.g., \u201cYou did a great job with those math problems&#8221;)<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #339966\">Praise your child for his persistence or effort (e.g., \u201cI can see you\u2019ve been practicing&#8221; and \u201cYour hard work has really paid off&#8221;)<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Praising kids for effort (and not innate ability) may help them develop a better mindset for learning. For more information, see my article\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.parentingscience.com\/theory-of-intelligence.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&#8220;Harmful beliefs: How a theory of intelligence can hamper your child&#8217;s ability to learn.&#8221;<\/a><\/p>\n<p><b>And keep in mind other important guidelines<\/b><\/p>\n<p>There are other pitfalls to avoid. For instance, even praise for effort can backfire under certain conditions. For more information, see this article on the\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.parentingscience.com\/effects-of-praise.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">most effective ways to praise kids.<\/a><\/p>\n<p><b>And what about the flip side of praise &#8212; criticism?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Criticism can be just as tricky as praise to get right. Perhaps it&#8217;s even trickier because criticism is intrinsically negative.<\/p>\n<p>But some intriguing experiments suggest a solution to the problem &#8212; one that is surprisingly simple. Check out my article\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.parentingscience.com\/correcting-behavior.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&#8220;Correcting behavior: The magic words that help kids cope with mistakes.&#8221;<\/a><\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;d like to learn more about the many ways that praise can affect performance, I recommend professor Carol Dweck&#8217;s classic book,\u00a0Mindset: The New Psychology of Success.<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ir-na.amazon-adsystem.com\/e\/ir?t=parenscien-20&amp;l=am2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0345472322\" alt=\"\" \/><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<hr \/>\n<div id=\"socializeit_192773999\" class=\"js-socializeit\"><\/div>\n<hr \/>\n<h3>References: Praise and intelligence<\/h3>\n<p>Cimpian A, Arce H-M C, Markham EM and Dweck CS. 2007. Subtle linguistic cues affect children\u2019s motivation. Psychological Science: 18(4): 314-316.<\/p>\n<p>Gunderson EA, Gripshover SJ, Romero C, Dweck CS, Goldin-Meadow S, and Levine SC. 2013. Parent praise to 1-3 year-olds predicts children\u2019s motivational frameworks 5 years later. Child Development.<\/p>\n<p>Henderlong J and Lepper MR. 2002. The effects of praise on children\u2019s intrinsic motivation: A review and synthesis. Psychological Bulletin 128(5): 774-795.<\/p>\n<p>Mueller CM and Dweck CS. 1998. Praise for intelligence can undermine children\u2019s motivation and performance. Journal for Personality and Social Psychology 75(1): 33-52<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Original Article from\u00a0https:\/\/www.parentingscience.com\/praise-and-intelligence.html Years ago, Americans were reluctant to praise their kids\u2019 intelligence. Like many people around the world, Americans believed that fawning over children would make them arrogant or narcissistic. But then something happened. American educators were seduced by the Self Esteem movement. They started promoting the idea that kids need flattery to succeed. 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