Character

“Hundreds of wise men cannot make the world a heaven, but one idiot is enough to turn it into a hell.”

Raheel Farooq

Relationship

“Will, you can pick your friends, and you can pick your nose, but you can’t pick your friends nose.”

John Green, Will Grayson, Will Grayson

Communication

“Frustration is the result of failed expectations.”

 

Stuart Kidder

Innovation

“A gap in skills and abilities reveal a golden opportunity!”

 

Abhishek Ratna

Relationship

“Not everyone is always going to like you. What impresses one person may turn another away. To thine own self be true.”

 

Susan C. Young

Character

“Interestingly, being yourself allows others to be themselves. Even with crazy imperfections, being a bona fide genuine person is the best any of us can be—messy flaws and all!”

Susan C. Young

Communication

“Be Interested & Interesting. People will be more interested in you when you are interested in them. If you want to impress, talk to them about . . . them.”

Susan C. Young

Good to Great

8 Ways to Shine a Positive Light on Others

1. Let the other person appear smart. The person who desperately tries to be the smartest person in the room inevitably comes off as the least.
2. Don’t bring attention to anything which may embarrass another person. Whether your conversation partner has poor grammar, a pimple on his chin, or lacks social grace, a discreet person does not say or do anything which would make another feel ashamed, embarrassed, or humiliated. Allow the other person to maintain his own grace and dignity.
3. Ask their opinions, seek their advice, ask them inquiring questions. By allowing them to reveal their opinions and knowledge, you will demonstrate respect and make them feel important.
4. Practice patience. Sometimes it takes a person a moment to gather her thoughts, process information, or respond appropriately. Your patience is respectful and appreciated.
5. Maintain your calm. Rather than react with anger or defensiveness, regulate your response and shift the energy into a more positive direction.
6. Put your ego aside. Allow another to triumph and enjoy the spotlight.
7. Be aware and concerned for the feelings of others.
8. Purposely seek ways to put others at ease and make them feel comfortable.

Susan C. Young

Competence

2″The best yardstick for our progress is not other people, but ourselves. Am I better than I was yesterday? This is the only question worth asking. As long as you go to bed at night a better practitioner than the one who woke up that morning, you have succeeded. Your worth should have nothing to do with how your progress stacks up relative to another.”

Chris Matakas, My Mastery: Continued Education Through Jiu Jitsu

Communication

“Make Others Feel Important. We all have an innate desire to feel important, be special, and feel appreciated. In your words and behavior help others feel important.”

Susan C. Young