Durham Crunchy fried prawn

This was a must dish that I have to prepare if I made Nasi Lemak when I was in Durham (especially, if the PRs requested that I made this).  But now, I rarely cook so this is just one of my distant memories.

Fried Prawn (I googled and watched Youtube to get inspiration from Japanese chefs making fried tempura prawn)

– Plain flour (If you don’t have any, you can use premix flour for frying.  No need to add paprika, pepper and salt, just mix it with cold water)
– A bit of baking powder
– Paprika (a dash or two)
– Black pepper
– White pepper
– Salt
– Cold water (for better result, water with ice cubes)

Fry it when the oil is hot enough (no measurement)

Durham BBQ chicken wings recipe_Version 2

This is also the whatever-is-available-in-the-kitchen recipe for BBQ chicken wings.  

Chicken cube

Sweet soy sauce

Oyster sauce

Honey

Crushed garlic

Crushed ginger

Crushed black pepper

 

How to do it?

Just mix all the ingredients for marinate.  Leave for few minutes/hours/over night.  It does not matter.  I am not that particular about that 😀  The process is similar like Version 1.  Mix all together.  No fancy stuff.  

Durham BBQ chicken wings recipe_Version 1

Well, it is not Durham recipe, but it is a recipe that I used to cook BBQ chicken wings when I was in Durham.  After searching my recipe book (uhuk uhuk I sound like a professional chef, right? 😀 ), I find the recipe.  Here is the recipe for version 1.  There is another version.  Version 2 (also can be categorised as whatever-ingredients-that-you-have-in-kitchen recipe)

I call it as “Resipi tak cukup bahan versi 1” [Translated: Insufficient ingredients recipe Version 1]

Mayonnaise

Chicken cube

Sweet soy sauce

Oyster sauce

Crushed black pepper

Crushed garlic

Crushed ginger

Note: As you can see, there is no specific measurement.  It is just according to my hunch and the availability of the ingredients.  😀  I don’t know how it tastes though.  It has become a distant memory.  But, my PRs say that my BBQ chicken is delicious

 

Things that I produced when I did my Latihan Ikhtisas_Part 2

Other than posters, I also produced lots of reports during Latihan Ikhtisas.  One of the reports that I had to submit is through online i.e. HIPS report.  For the HIPS report, it is a bit tricky because you have to create a survey that needs to be distributed to students, teachers and parents.  I need to plan the preparation well by collecting evidences based on activities that we organised at school.  It is all about planning. 

When I asked someone who is undergoing her Latihan Ikhtisas now, she said that she does not assign to do any reporting like that.   In this sense, I am lucky because I got first hand experience of what teachers have to do on regular basis (well, there are other many reports that they have to complete, and I was spared from those reports because I am not a teacher).  I can emphatise with teachers in Malaysia who are bogged down with documentation thingy.  Kudos to all teachers in Malaysia!

Things that I produced when I did my Latihan Ikhtisas_Part 1

 

There are so many things that I did while undergoing my Latihan Ikhtisas.  One of the things that I like to do is to create posters.  Here are some of the posters that I made.  Well, basically, it is grammar and whatsnot.  So, being a non-native speaker, of course I have to take the content such as idioms from elsewhere.   😀 

 

 

 

 

 

Hadith about Giving sadaqah

a) Charity will not decrease wealth

Abu Hurairah (R.A.) narrated Allah’s Messenger (S.A.W.) as saying: “Charity does not in any way decrease the wealth and the servant who forgives, Allah adds to his respect; and the one who shows humility, Allah elevates him in the estimation (of the people).” (Muslim Vol. 4, Hadith 6264)

b) Different kinds of sadaqah

– Sadaqah from what you earn

– Sadaqah by giving help/assistance to others

– Sadaqah by performing good deeds and restraining oneself from doing evils

Abu Musa narrated that the Prophet (S.A.W.) said, “Every Muslim has to give in sadaqah (charity).” The people asked, “O Allah’s Messenger (s.a.w.s.)! If someone has nothing to give, what will he do?” He said, “He should work with his hands and benefit himself and also give in charity (from what he earns).” The people further asked, “If he cannot do even that?” He replied, “Then he should help the needy who appeal for help.” Then the people asked, “If he cannot do that?” He replied, “Then he should perform all that is good and keep away from all that is evil and this will be regarded as charitable deeds.” (Bukhari Vol. 2, Hadith 524)

c) Examples of sadaqah

The Messenger of Allah (s.a.w.s.) said: “To smile in the company of your brother is charity. To command to do good deeds and to prevent others from doing evil is charity. To guide a person in a place where he can not get astray is charity. To remove troublesome things like thorns and bones from the road is charity. To pour water from your jug into the jug of your brother is charity. To guide a person with defective vision is charity for you.” (Bukhari)

d) Give sadaqah whenever you have opportunity to do so.

Haritha ibn Wahb narrated that he heard the Prophet (s.a.w.s.) saying, “O people! Give in charity as a time will come upon you when a person will wander about with his object of charity and will not find anybody to accept it, and anyone (who will be requested to take it) will say, “If you had brought it yesterday, I would have taken it, but today I am not in need of it.” (Bukhari Vol. 2, Hadith 492)

e) Sadaqah is best given when you are healthy, feeling hesitant (niggard) and afraid of being poor

Abu Hurairah (r.a.) narrated that a man came to the Prophet (s.a.w.s.) and asked, “O Allah’s Messenger which charity is the most superior in reward?” He replied, “The charity which you practice while you are healthy, niggardly and afraid of poverty and wish to become wealthy. Do not delay it to the time of approaching death and then say, ‘Give so much to such and such, and so much to such and such.’ (And it has already belonged to such and such (his heirs).” (Bukhari Vol. 2, Hadith 500)

Why you should give sadaqah when you are healthy?

When we are healthy, normally we have the tendency to overlook certain things in life especially those who are in need.  

Why you should give sadaqah when you are feeling hesitant (niggard) and afraid of being poor?

When we are feeling hesitant, normally we might be over-judgmental and then might easily become suspicious about the intent of the person asking for a charity/donation/something from you.  Being over judgmental makes it difficult for us to be decisive about an action, which is in this case giving sadaqah. 

Then if we think too much about how much money that we will “lose” because of giving it to others, this is as if we have a rightful claim over the money that we give away, whereas whatever we have is not ours on a first place.  It is all belong to Allah.  Sometimes, we tend to forget about that.  

Note: After reading these hadith again, I realise that I am making a mistake by not giving him anything except my smile.  I should not be over judgmental to doubt his intention.  أَسْتَغْفِرُ اللّٰهَ

A contractor asking for donation?

I was waiting for ‘Asr prayer (as I wrote this).  Then suddenly, I heard somebody knocking on my door.  I asked who he was.  He said that he is from Maahad Tahfiz.   I remember an ustaz who has Tahfiz centre nearby my place who never did anything like this before.  I was skeptical.    I am in dilemma.  I don’t want to lose any chance of giving sadaqah and at the same time, I don’t want to give my money to a conman.  [Note: He came again on 18 August 2019).   

What should I do?  As I was typing this, one of my colleagues messaged us using Whatsapp to let us know about this.  Alhamdulillah she has similar stance as I am.  

If the person tries to sell some product, I don’t mind buying anything from the person even though I might not in need of the things that he sells.  This is based on what my late mom taught me.  Don’t refuse to buy anything from a seller who comes to your house especially if you see he/she carries the things on his/her own. 

My mom was a regular customer of this lady who sells medicated oils and whatsnot.  The lady would never fail to come to my house to sell medicated oils, talcum powder, fish cracker and such.  After she passed away, the medicated oils and talcum power are still there on top of her make-up cabinet/drawer.  A remembrance of my late mother and her kindness.  Al-fatihah.    

Alhamdulillah

I heard the news that he was sick on the way to KL on Sunday (21 April 2019).  At first, I was not aware of the news because I was fasting and had a Personality Psychology class that day.  A busy day for me.  

When he was warded, I was contemplating to pay him a visit.  But upon request of his wife to have limited visits, I just pray for his well-being.  I know that he needs his rest.  I keep updated of any news about him via Whatsapp messages.  Alhamdulillah, when I saw he started to send messages on Whatsapp, I know that he is getting any better.

I pray May Allah Give our Dean, Prof Dr Muhammad Sukri Bin Saud a speedy recovery and ease anything that needs to be done for his recuperation.